What I Learned From… Adversity

This is the first group write project I’m taking part in. The “What I Learned From…” groupwrite is a monthly project by Robert Hruzek at Middle Zone Musings and the Adversity theme is outlined here.

So, why do these? For a few reasons:

• Firstly, it will be a challenge to me as a writer and will hopefully help in my growth as such.
• It’s a great way for you, my blog readers, to find out about new places to visit.
• Links back here will help the blog to grow rather nicely.
• It’s fun and will allow me to meet more new people.

The lesson.

I think that for all of us adversity has been a part of our lives at least once. The American Heritage Dictionary defines adversity as, “A state of hardship or affliction; misfortune.” This, I believe, would fit what most people automatically think of. For me, however, I prefer the Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary’s definition of, “Opposition; contrariety.”

In this sense, I think we reach the core of what adversity truly is. It is something either in your control or not that is working in opposition against you acheiving your goals in life. Whether it be abusive parents, difficulties in school, poverty, war, or such conditions as depression. Even writer’s block. All these things are a hindrance to your growth as a person, or writer, or in relation to your desired career path.

Or, to make it a little simpler, adversity is simply hurdles in your path. You have two options, really: Run directly into them, or leap over the hurdle, ready for the next.

This isn’t as easy as it is looks, I know. But no matter the size of the hurdle, it can be done. All it takes is mental, emotional, and sometimes physical, strength to manage that leap of faith. It can be hard at times to know what you’re going to land in, but one thing is for sure - you’ll come out stronger.

Beating writer’s block will reveal to you new ways to keep that creativity flowing, as an example; strengthening your ability to write. Battling depression and winning will help you see new light and joy in life, making it easier to fend off such things in the future: Your defenses are stronger.

And that is what I’ve learned form adversity: Strength.